We only dated for like 9-10ish weeks and out of nowhere he dumped me literally after telling me how he saw us in the long run, we became exclusive, how much he liked me, etc. just a few days prior. Anyways I’m still a little messed up over it because there wasn’t any closure and feel so used and led on. It’s been 2 months now and he got with a new girl shortly after our split and I’m still here trying to figure things out and clean the mess sort of speak. He was the first person I dated after my fiance passed away 8 months prior and this is how I get treated 🙃 Needless to say, I now have absolutely ZERO desire to want to date and put myself out there again, and this dude is a prime example as to why I hate dating!! I’m 28 and he was 31. I’m trying my best to move forward and get my ducks in a row but also in the back of my mind still like the idea of having a partner but also am afraid to be led on and hurt again without realizing. I was really hoping that who I met next was a one and done kind of thing since I know what I want, a husband!