Is he showing how he really feels?

I kicked my abusive husband out for the 2nd time the other day and only gave him a day to pack his stuff. He said if I wanted for him to keep paying my phone bill then I need to send him pics of our kids everyday. Today, I pretended to act like I was sorry, missed him and he was ignoring me until I told him I thought he loved me and he said no he doesnt already and hes tired of the relationship. He even said he move soon on the other side of the country because he would not want to see me happy with another man and have our kids call him daddy. For him to move that far away, I feel he dont really care about our kids?