Okay so I’ve been seeing this guy and we haven’t had sex yet. I’m supposed to see him tonight and we’re planning to have sex but I woke up this morning to spotting. Not my period (4 days away) but spotting. I’m worried that if we have sex it will cause me to bleed during which kind of definitely don’t want for our first time together. But he lives kind of far and I don’t know when the next time we’ll get to have sex will be.

I don’t want to make a mess in his bed but I also really want us to have sex like we’ve been talking about.