So me and this guy that I’ve liked since last year finally got each others snap and starting talking. We also work together. I will try to make this short and simple.

It was going good we would message each other, we hung out twice, he got into an argument with his parents so he slept over my house but nothing happened. We got into really deep conversations and I felt completely comfortable opening up to him and I’m sure he did too because he told me he struggles with bpd.

Now that being said his friend told me that he usually isolates himself from time to time due to his bpd and that he never really had a girlfriend before.

As y’all can guess where I am going with this we kinda stopped talking since December. We are still friends on Snapchat but my question is should I message him and ask how he’s doing or should I take a hint that he doesn’t want to talk to me ?