So, my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. Last February, I found out he was using his “work phone” to schedule hook ups with women. After I confronted him about that, he said he would never do it again. I gave him another chance. Well in between last February and now, I’ve caught him doing stuff on his both of his phones, including a hidden album of one girl that he was sending money to and saving pictures of her. I asked him months ago to get rid of his “work phone” because he doesn’t work for that job anymore. He told me he threw it away. One day I came home from work, and it was laying on the bed, which means he lied and didn’t throw it away. I went through and he had made a fake Facebook with a fake name and hit up two girls that I know on Facebook talking about how sexy they are. He swears up and down that he was not the one that did that and someone made a Facebook with all of his info. I’ve reached my breaking point. It has taken a toll on my mental health so badly. I’m questioning myself. Like is it my fault?? What did I do to make him keep doing this??

He is now begging me to not leave him for good after he broke up with me because he thought I was going to break up with him. He has been crying and promising that he won’t do it again but I feel like the damage is already done.. idk what to do