So I went out to see a girl friend(we are pretty close) to the old bar and restaurant that I used to work for while I was pregnant, why specifically there? Because she works there and she was working, we live in a very small town so there was no one at the restaurant besides her, another worker and the kitchen crew and obviously me and my two month old baby. Another friend wanted to see me she went to the bar across the street from where I was, I left my baby with my friend and walked across the street to go get my other friend, the father of my baby was at that bar and questioned where was the baby, I told him where the baby was and with who and he started walking towards the place, it made me upset how he reacted because when I ask him to watch the baby he makes excuses but he can do whatever he wants, he has a lot of freedom and not a lot of responsibility with the baby, he can stay out until 6 AM drinking on the weekends and not see his baby at all and be okay with it, so I got mad and started walking too and said I was leaving, I grabbed my baby and got in my car and drove across the street to say bye to my other friend, the father of my baby got upset and started asking me why was I lying to him and why bring the baby with me, that I should find someone to take care of her if I wanted to go out so bad, and while it is true maybe I should have hired a babysitter but I didn’t think it was necessary I was only going for an hour and my situation is not the best at the moment (I’m 21 I still live with my parents, I’m currently unemployed and trying to go back to school, all my savings I spent them buying food for me and the father of my baby and buying formula, he doesn’t help me watching the baby or monetarily) he made me feel like I was a bad mom for leaving her and we argued and I told him to take away the baby if he thinks I’m not responsible enough with the baby and if he though he knew how to do better than me (I know a little dramatic but I was very upset) of course he said no but he says I was in the wrong for leaving the baby with my friend to “go out” but I wasn’t going to be gone for more than 10 minutes, and I trust my friend to take care of my baby. Like did I really messed up? Was he right to get mad at me and was I wrong to get mad about it? (By the way me and him are together but live separately at the moment, until we can move in together but after this I’m not sure what’s going to happen)