Venting

I don’t know what to do at this point. I’ve been a stay at home mom since my son was born 20 months ago. We recently went to a wellness exam and I did the autism questionnaire, well the pediatrician wants him to go to speech therapy and get an evaluation for autism. I’ve been noticing him changing I’m with him everyday. He loves to jump, spin in circles, doesn’t respond to name, doesn’t bring me toys he normally self plays, he gets upset and shakes while grunting, likes to spin wheels, I could go on. However when I filled out the paper yeah I’m very concerned about my child. Now I found out they have early intervention so that was good news. I’m not going to love him any less but I’m worried about how his dad might respond to a diagnosis like that. He knows it could be but he really doesn’t believe he has it. Like I said I’m with him all the time and he presents autism signs to me. We have very different answers regarding this topic.