Just for a little background this is my 9th pregnancy and its the first one to get this far(still high risk and have been advised to be on bed rest). This morning i was extra tired and wasnt feeling well, my MIL works from home on tuesdays and thursdays so the past week she has been the one to drop off her other two kids and pick them up from school on tuesday and today.(my husband and i split cost of living with her to make things easier on both parties financially) ... this was apparently to much of a bother for her so when my husband mentioned that once we get back.from the hospital how id be in bed for the first week as recommended by my doctor she had a fit because " that wont work for me" and " she isnt even working right now or helping around the house much so i just need her to do this one thing for me" more context.. i've basically been raising her kids, making almost every meal for everyone and being the main person cleaning the house since we moved in. Recently i took a step back and actually started taking the bed rest seriously because im only 34 weeks and getting horrible Braxton hicks as well as other complications and this is also a problem for her since now more of the actual parenting responsibilities for her children are falling back on her. Any advice?? Or am i just being dramatic?