Extremely sore toddler bottom

ma

mama

My little toddler (2yo) has had a few instances of very tough constipated poopies a month or so ago. (She isn’t potty trained yet). It resulted her not wanting to her herself cleaned because it was sore. However, i persevered and within half an hour would clean her with fresh warm water and cotton pads (as I’ve already done since she was born). However, a few times she’s done a poopie whilst we’ve been out of the house and on our way home in the car, which has resulted in waiting at least 45mins or longer before her nappy is changed.

Now she’s just extremely sore there and frequently tells me it’s “ow ow” there. I usually use My Expert Midwife bottom oil, but when I saw it not go away and be quite red, used Sudocreme. I actually changed to Burt’s Bees because of the natural ingredients but I think that just aggravated and sort of initiated this problem. For 2ish months she’s just quite pink there and most recently, when I gently wiped her little buns, a hint of blood came. I bathe her every second day (id like to do it everyday, but I’m disabled and it’s challenging to complete all chores (both for the house or for the baby) simultaneously, so I have to split it into two days.

There was a yellow cream I bought too a few days ago, which didn’t help but didn’t make it worse.

Any advice on what other product I could use? Should I just let her roam around without a nappy and clean up when she has an accident (she isn’t ready for the potty)

135 views • 0 upvotes • 11 comments

COMMENT (11)

Ka

Posted at
Naked booty time—let her air out

Me

Posted at
Put on Desitin and coat that with Vaseline over it.

Al

Posted at
Also, add baking soda to her bath. If it’s really bad, pepto (the pink liquid medicine) works great and fast. It reduces pain and provides a protective layer. Use a cotton ball to generously dab it on the infected area.

Al

Allison • Feb 13, 2024
You can also mix the pepto with aquaphor to make a paste which is a bit cleaner and works just as well.

Ki

Posted at
When my son gets a rash that a&d can't cure (he's allergic to most rash creams) I use boogie diaper rash spray and its gone in a day

Ki

Kiara • Feb 13, 2024
I cant figure out how to post the picture but just search "boogie diaper rash spray" and it should pop up

ma

mama • Feb 13, 2024
Or picture? :)

ma

mama • Feb 13, 2024
Is there a link for this?

Sa

Posted at
I would definitely recommend corn starch. Sprinkle a generous amount in her diaper.

ma

Posted at
@GlowGPT please help me with this topic!

Gl

GlowGPT • Feb 13, 2024
<p>It sounds like your toddler's bottom is very sore and irritated. It's important to address this issue to prevent further discomfort. Here are a few suggestions: 1. Consult a pediatrician: It's always a good idea to seek professional medical advice for persistent or worsening symptoms. A pediatrician can examine your toddler and provide specific recommendations. 2. Keep the area clean and dry: After each diaper change, gently clean the area with warm water and a soft cloth or cotton pads. Pat dry instead of rubbing to avoid further irritation. 3. Use a barrier cream: Apply a thick layer of a gentle barrier cream, such as zinc oxide or petroleum jelly, to protect the skin from moisture and friction. Avoid products with fragrances or harsh chemicals that may further irritate the skin. 4. Give diaper-free time: Allowing your toddler to have some diaper-free time can help the skin breathe and heal. Place a waterproof mat or towel on the floor to catch any accidents. 5. Offer plenty of fluids and fiber: Encourage your toddler to drink enough fluids and consume fiber-rich foods to help soften the stools and prevent constipation. Remember, it's essential to consult a healthcare professional for personalized advice and to rule out any underlying issues.</p>