My 16 month old has been a terrible sleeper since 4 months.

We’ve had phases of less wake ups- no less than 3 though.

Currently he’s up about 7 times. Needing feeding to get back to sleep a few of them and I truly can’t cope I’m going to have a breakdown. I don’t get it.

He can self soothe in the early hours of the morning sometimes. I see him just grab his teddy, play and sleep! He also puts himself to sleep at the start of the night!

He still has 2 naps as when he has 1 he sleeps even worse. Also advised by 2 sleep consultants

He absolutely will not settle for my partner he just shouts and cries mummy over and over again so everything feels so tough and overwhelming right now, especially as I have work too now.

Am I alone in this? How can he still not sleep any better than he did as a newborn. I feel like I’m very close to losing my mind. What am I doing wrong?