Feeling lonely

Jess

Does anyone else gave this issue? My husband doesn't show any kind of physical affection unless we're being intimate, we usually sit on separate couches bc of the way our living room is set up, which is fine. But from time to time i wanna lay on the couch with him and cuddle, well anytime i suggest it hes like " you can " or " i dont wanna get hot " he doesnt say it mean or anything but it just hurts my feelings bc im wanting to cuddle and be a little close and hes not wanting to, hes a gret husband and we love eachother but i know he doesnt need/want/ like physical touch bc he just doesnt like to be touched, byt shouldnt it be differentfor your spouses? I love that feeling, makes me feel comforted and close. But when he says "if you want to" it doesnt make me want to and immediately changes my whole attitude, i just dont know what to do. I try to respect him when it comes to that bc i dont want to force him into changing who he is, i just want more physical touch. Thoughts?