Heritage

I have struggled with my heritage for many years. I was brought up with mostly one culture, speaking and going to classes for that one cultural side, as for the latter I never knew much. I struggled a lot with my identity and recently I was sort of shown that I was not that culture that I never really knew. I’ve always wanted to be part of both of my heritages. I never knew that it was going to be harder the older I got. Is this normal? To feel somewhat disconnected from parts of yourself? Have any of you girls ever struggled with your identity?