Casual Sex partner doesnt kiss me during sex. Should Isay something?

Hi,

So I am casually hooking up with this guy. It’s like 1-2 times every few months as I just moved out of state and we still hook up when I come back in town.

The other night was our first time having sex and it didn’t feel rush… as most times, we have to have car sex, because I am a mom. etc. He came over and the vibes were right.

However, there are two things I want to say something about…

1. Him not kissing me during sex

2. The inconsistency of communication on his end.

I am kind of shy to kiss him as he have not initiated a kiss, he stated I can do whatever to him… but idk. Should I say something to him about this or should I just kiss him?

On the other hand, when trying to arrange sex. It’s sometimes hard with him, bc he is so inconsistent with texting back or just the time in which he wants to come and have sex- it’s inconvenient for me as I am a mom.

So ln, I didn’t have my kid, so I hit him up asking him to come over… I’ve been telling him I wasn’t going to have my kid this day, so he can plan to come over..as I try to have the best sex when my kid is not around.

Anyways, he text asking where I was… I told him… but didn’t receive a response back.

So today, my kid isn’t around until later this evening and I am set to leave tomorrow and taking flight. I want it one more time, but I don’t want to come off as too aggressive.

Idk if I should reach out again? Or should I just leave it alone.