Would you respond back to your sneaky link friend?

Question

Hi. So I have a sneaky link that I’ve been linking with since last summer…one of his best friends hit my dm trying to get at me a few months back. I kept it to the dm and didn’t give his best friend my number when he asked me via dm.

Today, a few hours ago… another man hit my dm. I find this man to be attractive and my type…however, the only problem is, he is mutual friends on fb with my sneaky link and from what I see he is the brother of my sneaky link other close friend.

Me and my sneaky link aren’t together so, technically, I can do what I want… but it’s just an eerie feeling that these men are somewhat connected to him and I’m not sure if it’s a set up or if they are genuinely interested.

So should I respond or just leave it alone?

Answer

Honestly if his “friends” are trying to talk to you that means he is talking about you to them. That’s so weird how his mutual friends reach out at when you’re talking to your sneaky link. If that made sense ☹️ I had that happen to me when I was younger.

Answer

Are you honestly interested in this person, have they expressed wanting a relationship with you or another side piece or sneaky link as you put it it’s honestly up to you. If you feel you owe it to your original person to have a conversation with them as to these people contacting you, again that is completely up to you. Although you are not obligated, I don’t know what your arrangement is, if they tell you, if they are messing with other people or not, whatever makes you comfortable, and all honesty. Do the new people know that you are messing with the other person? It is entirely up to you if you tell them or not, but if you feel this is some kind of set up, then I think a conversation needs to be had to figure out if it is or not. Talk to your original person and tell them that his friend so-and-so reached out to you and expressed interest in you. Would it bother you if we dated or messed around or whatever whatever the situation is. And I would talk to that person and let them know you are Messing around with bob or whatever his name is, and need to make you aware of that, I don’t know if that makes you uncomfortable or not to be messing around with your friends, other partner, but I think it definitely a conversations need to be so that Jealousy or control or manipulation or anything else doesn’t happen and it ends up being a sticky situation for you. Sometimes people feel that you are supposed to be loyal to them while they are allowed to do whatever, and get mad or want nothing to do with you when they find out that you are messing with other people. Like the photo below, the last thing you want is to end up in a sticky situation or heartbroken, or feeling used or taken advantage of, etc. so please make sure you have some conversations before you engage with other people because you don’t want it to come back and bite you or become a Bad situation for you.

Answer

@GlowGPT please help me with this topic!

Would you respond back to your sneaky link friend?

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