He deleted a comment (emotional infidelity)

My husband ONCE (3rd time) again caught emotionally stepping out of our marriage

For context he’s 50 liking women’s pics and commenting even responding to messages

These girls are 18-24

Well I learned of his duplicities and he knows I know as I replied to his comments and liked these hurtful comments he was making

He deleted one of the comments as soon as he saw I responded to him

It was a comment telling some young girl you’re beautiful with an amazing personality and you’re so awesome! I love your content!

She has no content it’s just her staring at her camera smiling or proactively dancing with barely any clothes on

He doesn’t give me affirmations or admiration or compliments so yes this behavior is hurtful he said he can’t do those things with me as it’s “difficult”

I didn’t bring it up cos I’m the last I have and he denied and denied and denied and got mad I, this time, wanted to see how he reacted seeing I knew and he reacted by not bringing it up and deleting shit

We will be discussing it unbeknownst to him the 16th in couples counseling as I plant to bring it up our counselor knows about all this and knows my plan to bring it up

POLL:

Since he deleted one of these comments do you feel he should have had a conversation with me?