We planned this, then he dipped?

Question

Me and my boyfriend decided to have a baby, finally! After 5 months of talking about it.. Buuut last night after he cummed in me, he flipped the script, became nonchalant and I started wondering if I should take a plan b, but my ovulation test was already positive, so I doubt it would work. 
He blocked me on WhatsApp and I blocked him after he said “your body, your choice, your responsibility”
We don’t live together (at this point, thankfully) but please don’t make comments about “this is why should wait till marriage” when people in marriages often get hurt too.. 
What do I do? I’ve wanted another baby, my last baby, but I didn’t want it to go this way.. I’ve never had an abortion and it’s illegal in my state and I’m not sure how I would even feel about it.. Can anyone relate?

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Take plan b. 
Having children in or outside of marriage isn’t the issue here.

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SMH this has nothing to do with waiting for marriage, but all with having a stable relationship and knowing each other including the bad parts.
Sounds like you want a baby so bad, you jumped the first willing guy. You do you, but expect to be a single mom 🤷🏼‍♀️

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You said you planned on having a baby and have been discussing for 5 months, why then would you need plan b or even consider abortion? You sound like you're not sure about what you want. I hope you're not pregnant so that you can get on birth control. Him flipping the script has absolutely nothing to do with your personal desires. If you want a baby, have one. If he doesn't want to be present just dump him and put him on child support. He did agree to a child and did everything to have one so him changing his mind isn't your fault or problem.

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This is sad and honestly one of my biggest fears.. I hope whatever you choose you find peace.

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Girl! Let’s just hope you’re not pregnant! Don’t talk to him ever again. Especially on what’s app

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Did you even give any thought to how having a baby would go if you guys don’t even live together yet? Start with that at least because not living together is going to make raising a kid harder. But obviously he wasn’t that serious about the baby stuff.

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Ouch. This is ruff. If you already decided you wanted another baby, then do that with or without him.

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Take the plan b. It's also possible you didn't even conceive so no reason to freak out just yet.

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What an a*sshole. Sorry you had to deal with this and thank god he showed his true colors now than later down the road. Honestly the choice is up to you. You have to ask yourself a lot of questions and be honest with yourself. Pros and cons. It may be illegal but you can still get it done. I’ve said I would never get an abortion and I’ve had a few and only regretted two by my kids father. 
I hope you find peace in all of this and whatever decision you make🤍🤍🤍.
Sending you a hug over the screen🤍 You got this❤️￼

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No I can't relate

We planned this, then he dipped?

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