Do you believe in mothers intuition

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I struggled so hard to get pregnant and went through IVF. I got pregnant and my baby was born premature and he "died". I had a very hard time believing he died. We have our son cremated and there was always a part of me that knew my baby is alive. I have been to therapy but only did it for about a month each time I went back. I haven't had a successful transfer since😞. We had neighbors move in and this woman is a single mom because her husband passed. I've had conversations with her but I've seen her kids and I saw her oldest son. Everyone is going to call me crazy. I know. But I know that her son is mine. He looks very different from her and her other kids. She and her other kids are dirty blood whereas he's a red head just like me. He doesn't really look like his "mom" at all. And he's almost 13. My son would be about that age now. And this woman is a nurse and I've read several stories of nurses kidnapping babies from the hospital. Google it. There are many cases of it. I know deep down in my heart that he is my son. My husband says I'm obsessing again and I need to get a grip and go back to therapy but I AM a mother and I KNOW my child when I see him. But I have to proof to demand a DNA test and my husband told me I need to leave that family alone and I'm being crazy but I can FEEL my intuition!

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I’m sorry but this is completely delusional, you’re trying to accuse her of kidnapping your son that passed away because she’s a nurse. you need to go back to therapy. and stay away from her kids if you can’t see you’re being completely delusional

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Honestly you probably need inpatient psychiatric treatment at this point. This is a full blown delusion. Like lifetime movie crazy. and you sound like a danger to this woman and her son. The very least you should be looking into therapy and medication immediately.

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You are having some serious delusions. That is absolutely not your son. No one kidnapped your child. Unfortunately your child has passed away and logically you know that. You bother that woman trying to demand a DNA test on her own child, be prepared for a restraining order or face charges for harassment. Im sorry you lost your child honey but this is not the answer. Listen to your husband and get on some medication and back into therapy.

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I’m so sorry for your loss but you are not thinking rationally, please listen to your husband he is truly just trying to help you. If you continue holding onto this delusion it will affect your entire life. Please speak to a mental health professional about this. It is so common for people to not be able to accept their loved ones passing, our minds are powerful and will do whatever it can to try to cope. Stick to a therapist and allow them to help you learn new coping mechanisms

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Please get in therapy. You are suffering from serious delusions that could end up with you in handcuffs if you keep down this path. 
Your baby died. I’m sorry if that hurts but you need to hear it. Your baby wasn’t kidnapped and you’re making up stories. 
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My parents had dark brown or black hair, tanned easily and were both stocky. I have ed sheeran red hair, head to toe freckles and and tall and skinny like a stick figure. I am 10000% my moms baby as she had me at home and I am the only one out of 4 bio kids who look like me. I cannot imagine the loss but that's not your child. You sadly had to cremate your beautiful baby and I cannot imagine the pain you lived it and do know. You need more than a month or 2 of therapy here or there and its not to be mean but its very unhealthy for you to live this way. Don't approach that family at all. Don't try to get dna. Don't ask the mother questions to try and get info to fit your story. Let them be and find a way to heal because you need it. This isn't mothers intuition...its wanted hope in the face of unimaginable trauma.

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I have to agree you’re gonna end up in a whole lot of legal messes with restraining orders and harassment charges, and accusations that are going to turn into a huge mess for you.  ￼ My niece is looking nothing like their mother, they are all my dad. But you don’t see her trying to get a DNA test. I lost two children myself 4 1/2 and 2 1/2 months of pregnancy back in 2014 and 2015. The way I made peace with it was writing my daughter, a letter, getting everything off my chest, apologizing to her, telling her all the things I’ve always wanted to tell her, being the best auntie to my nieces, I just passed down my tiara for my quinceanera to my niece That I would’ve given to my daughter Katie. Which still tears me up just talking about. I strongly recommend therapy, making peace, and letting this go, cops are gonna think you’re insane trying to get a DNA test or harassment charges or something else is going to happen. You can’t just accuse people. And the last thing you wanna cause emotional distress of that child. I wish you the best of luck, lasting please don’t kidnap that child or anything else, but I wish you luck, and I hope you find some healing and peace

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He probably got red hair from his dad who passed away. You are not his mom. I understand this is probably coming from trauma but ive seen psychotic episodes first hand and it sounds like you’re having one. Even considering wanting a DNA test for your neighbors kid because he has red hair is crazy. please seek help

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Your husband is right. This honestly is very scary. Do not do anything to this family. Your mind is tricking you trying to make sense of the trauma you experienced. But there is no way this was a mistake. Listen to your husband. It is really important you get back into therapy

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Oh hun you are not ok 
I’m sorry for your loss, but you are going to get in serious trouble if you don’t stop
Please take your husbands advice and go back to therapy and maybe bring your husband with you 
This is not mother’s intuition

Do you believe in mothers intuition

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