My husbands grandma makes comments about me being “too big” when I’m pregnant 🥴

We had our first baby together in January of 2022 and when we brought our baby to meet her for the first time the first thing she said to me is “I saw your pregnancy pictures on Facebook and my gosh I thought you were having twins. You looked huge.” And I really didn’t know how to take it. But my daughter ended up being 9.2lbs anyways so I did have a decent sized baby

I’m now 32 weeks with our newest addition (don’t mind the background it’s in my works bathroom 😅)

And I got a phone call from her tonight saying she has a piece of mail for my husband. And she goes on to say “I hate to say it but you just look humongous” and I go “yeah I have pretty big babies” and then she goes “well I’ll let you go.” And that was the end of it.

Am I really THAT big?? It kind of hurts my feelings.. but maybe she’s not meaning it in a bad way 🥴 I have gained quite a bit of weight in my legs, arms, and face this time around. But it just makes me feel like I’m letting myself go with how she’s acting