Is French Kissing Out!?

So I need some advice 😫 unsure if I can do anything or my situation is hopeless. I am a bisexual woman and physical touch is my #1 love language I love kissing making out especially with a lil tongue or even lip bit never just plain continuous pecks. My current girlfriend when we first got together we made our all the time with tongue then as we got deeper into it I noticed she stopped and I brought it up and found out she doesn’t actually like to kiss that way but did for me… I have never not kissed with some level of tongue in relationship and like I just feel so bored regular kissing all the fucking time and it’s so weird she says it’s all the spit but when she’s drunk she’ll do it and she’s good at it 😭I just don’t understand but I’m noticing I’m kissing her less and she said something and I think it’s cause I’m bored my issue is I feel like if I bring it up and she starts doing it it’ll be by force I want her to like it too HELPPPPPPP