My husband always finish and then leaves me hanging

My husband always wants me on top and he finishes so fast and then leaves me hanging. I told him it bothers me how he always orgasms but I don’t. (He didn’t seem bothered) I mentioned if he could get me a vibrator or something during sex and he said no.

Is this really how it’s suppose to be? It’s not fun what so ever! Is it ok to be frustrated?

Tonight he took off his boxers and he signaled for me to get on top… I just told him no. I really don’t wanna do it. I’m left high and dry.

Like last night I was so horny. I was on top, he finished and then he was done while I didn’t get nothing out of it and he still wants me on top doing all the work. There’s no point in it. 😭 help!

Would this bother you or am I overreacting ? Like I really don’t wanna have sex with me because there’s no satisfaction