We’ve had some issues since having babies… our relationship/marriage is not the way it was pre. It’s been a week now every night our babies are sleeping he watches hockey and falls asleep and I am in bed and doing my own thing. He used to love to be with me. Now he always says when I mention hanging out “like we don’t have to always be together…” meanwhile we are not always together… tonight I told him maybe we could connect because it’s feeling kind of roommate ish … he started cursing and dropping f bombs and saying how is it roommate ish? It’s just us having alone time which is nice too.

Everytime I voice my feelings he gets defensive and tells me I expect too much. He used to be so different Pre babies.

Idk.