low drive

perhaps this is a silly thing to say but i wanted to see if anyone has experienced this.

i’ve recently lost interest in sex with my boyfriend. at one point, it was consistent and enjoyable but overtime i grew a bit frustrated with it as it felt like a chore that had to be done before doing anything else. i would make it known i wasn’t in the mood and he respected it… however, we bumped heads when he spoke about how his sex drive is quite high and that he’s confused about what to do since one minute i’ll want to have sex but when it came time to actually do it with him leading it, i lost interest pretty fast. we agreed that maybe we shouldn’t sleep with each other if i continue to be indecisive about it. now i’m just overall concerned about my drive. we had sex a couple of weeks ago and it was alright but it was something i wasn’t expecting. regardless, he makes a couple of hints about wanting to have sex and i feel bad since i still don’t have that desire to sleep with him ( must note that he was okay without out it before the last time we had sex since i was extremely stressed out with finals but finals are over & im still not eager to sleep with him ) … im hoping im not abnormal or anything bc i love him but i’m completely stuck on what to do :((