Some men ain't 💩
You know your ex ain't 💩 when you get into a car accident and flip your car and all your ex says when told about it is "dang that's crazy"... I flipped my car today (I'm alive and well just sore. The seatbelt saved my life!) and my mom had my kids because I was heading to work so she let my oldest son's dad know so he would come get my son but told her he couldn't and just said crazy. He didn't ask if I was okay or anything.. When she told me that I was beyond shocked.. My younger child's dads first question was if I was okay so at least he cared about my safety even though our breakup was nasty and we don't talk unless we absolutely have to.. Oh and he actually came and got our son.. To be so unbothered by the fact I could have died is just insane to me.. I'm still the mother of his child.
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.