I have a 7 month old boy. I was 4 months pregnant when the father of my now born son left me to be with another girl. I feel like i did wrong by my son for not allowing his father to see his “child” but at the same i know I’m doing the right thing by me and my son by not allowing the father to get the chance to his child. In my head my mind is telling me to give that dude a chance to have a glimpse of the life i created but my heart wont stand to ever allow itself to get hurt again. I never planned in birthing a fatherless son but i know its the right thing to do. I just want to know if what I’m doing isn’t making me look stupid.