Cheating?

Question

So me and my partner agreed no porn Idc if he jerks off but porn bothers me yes I have some insecurities knowing my man is lusting over other woman just don’t sit right with me and hurt my feelings honestly I told him if he was to watch it he’s cheating on me he said it’s not cheating it’s being dishonest yes but not cheating I feel if you have to lie and hide it it’s cheating so my question is would you consider this cheating?

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I find it controlling to police your partners masturbation habits. To each their own but I don’t understand why this is such a major issue for so many people. 
Porn is not “lusting” after a particular person. The lure is watching the act of sex, hearing and seeing, etc.
I cannot imagine my partner having an opinion of what sort of stimuli I use while masturbating. Quite frankly, it’s not up to my partner or his business really. 
If this is a boundary for you, you’re in the wrong relationship.

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No. I would not consider watching porn cheating. I also don’t see an issue with porn in my relationship. Cheating is whatever a couple has discussed and agreed is cheating. If yall never had that convo, then he didn’t cheat. But if you have an issue with what happened, leave. In the future, don’t get into relationships with someone who doesn’t have the same boundaries as you.

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No, it's not cheating. If someone is lying, it is dishonest, and I might consider them an untrustworthy person. However, this would never be an issue in my relationship because I would never worry about my partner, watching porn or not. His masturbation habits are his business. You are allowed to have your own boundaries in your own relationship, but your boundaries should be to protect you, not to control his behavior. So if he crosses your boundaries, then you have to wonder what you're doing with someone who is not on the same page with you about this. Knowing that you will not be able to control his behavior. ￼￼

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I dont see it as cheating or being dishonest. We both watch porn and talk about it openly. Its not an issue at all in our relationship.

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To me porn is not cheating. He's also not being dishonest if he's telling you.

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