Cause I’m totally confused

Alysee’ • Planning world domination 🧠 mommy of 2 💙💜

So me and this guy (I’ve been exclusively dating for 7 months) just got into a disagreement about a week ago which ended up with us going on a couple days m. After talking it through, we met up on a date yesterday evening. While out last night , I asked him if he was still on his dating apps and he said he is not actively on the apps but he does still have his profiles on them and admitted to getting on them when I stopped talking to him to check his messages but realized it’s not worth it and got off them and reached back out to me to fix things. Til this day he has the apps on his phone. He said (jokingly) I was on a 10 day contract and he wants to see if we can go without me cutting him off (which I’ve only did once cause he said he didn’t want to talk anymore not knowing he meant the conversation not me period) but he said that before he wants to move forward in a relationship and is unsure if I am ready for a relationship. He asked me if I am falling in love with him and I said yes, but he told me it’s 50/50 after the argument we had. Then, he asked me to go on a trip with him with his friends (which are married couples btw) and introducing me as his girl and claiming as his girl but then giving me mixed signals …. It’s like one minute you dating me exclusively but still have dating apps on your phone and now you want me to go on trips with you like we a couple… I’m not trying to force a relationship cause that’s not the case at all but don’t give me mixed signals.

Update: he told me that he is not going to delete his dating apps until he gets into a relationship so that’s that and I said fine and I just decided to leave him alone all together cause I do t see what the big deal is. Don’t ask me to go on a trip with married couples and telling them I am your girl but I’m not and you got dating apps on your phone. I’m done.