HELP PLS bf doesn’t want sexy time ??

Gi

Ok so I’m gonna start off by saying I’ve never been in a healthy relationship.. all my past bfs have been a holes .. I’m in a new relationship and i recently re connected with a guy who I “dated” in 8th grade😂 … he’s super sweet and respectful and.. it’s almost too good to be true!! I’ve never been this happy before in a relationship . . Alright so , IDK HOW TO SAY THIS BUT… im so used to guys wanting to *do it* twice a day, or at least once a day!! But new bf doesn’t seem as interested.. might be 3 days out of the week that we do it… it kinda makes me confused and also wanting more and more. Whenever we do, do “IT”.. it’s amazing!! he’s very shy but so good to me and always tells me how long he’s been wanting to date me and I was “the one that got away” and he’s told me he hasn’t been with a lot of ppl… and when we are finished he asks me a million times if he was good enough or how he could do better.. he’s very self conscious about a lot of things and it makes me sad bc he’s perfect but I’m scared to bring this up and pressure him into having more sex when he’s ok with where we are at.. so when we are cuddling and I touch him he doesn’t get hard .. my ex and previous men iv even w would get a hard on just by cuddling… but my bf now doesn’t!! Is this normal !!?? my question is should I talk to him ab it? Will this change with time? I’m torn bc our relationship is beautiful bc he shows me in other ways that he loves me other than sex and I’m NOT USED TO THAT AT ALL! And it’s amazing and I love it bc in the past I did feel used… but at the same time I wanna jump his bone all the time bc of him being so pure and innocent/genuine!!😂😂 idk .. HELP!