Parents hate my husband

My parents hate my husband so much. Especially my dad and it hurts because he treats me so well. Both me and my husband have been married before. I'm straight, while my husband is pansexual and his last spouse before me was a man. We both came out of abusive relationships. I left my husband the night he raped me and when I even started dating my husband and my dad met him he already could tell that my husband does have a little bit of a feminine side because he paints his nails. It's usually black though. My dad tried for years to convince me to go back to my ex husband and said that maybe my ex was confused and didn't understand he has raped me. Stuff like that. It hurt that my own dad wanted me to be with someone like that. My husband's ex husband was extremely violent towards him. I love my husband and I have never been happier but my parents just don't like him. They hate how he calls me Queenie(instead of Queen) as a nickname and said can he at least pretend to be straight. They would just rather me be with a man who raped me than someone who's a little feminine. Even though my husband is amazing. I'm not sure if I want kids but I know if I had them he would be am amazing father as he's such a great band teacher. He always listens to me. He has a big heart and would do anything for anyone. Even though my parents aren't nice to him he will still always try to help them if they need help like when my mom needed to be driven to a doctor's appointment. My husband drove her but she was a hateful towards him the whole time. Even at our wedding my dad tried to talk me out of it and said I deserve a realan and all he's ever wanted for me was to be with a real man and I told him I'm marrying one. We've been married for 5 years now and still nothing has changed with my parents.