Mil are fun 🙄

My mother in law is a ruined of things… she ruined my first sons name by making fun of it so I changed the middle name. We don’t like names that can be made into nicknames and name our children according to that we’ve had a girl name picked out for a while now and she ignored the name (which can’t be shortened at all) and immediately tried to nickname JJ which are the first and middle initials to say it infuriated me is an understatement. Then last night she texted my husband asking what the name choices are so she can run them by the family and they can help choose…. Like tf you have nothing to do with this and I didn’t even want her knowing we were pregnant yet because she sucks and when we addressed that fact that she has almost ruined the name we’ve had picked out for 10 years she said well I am just hoping I’m alive to see my grandbaby 🙄….. the same narcissistic manipulative bs she’s always done.

I don’t give af about names right now we lost our boy Zander at 15 weeks last year I’m still not over that and this pregnancy is bittersweet I just want to make it past 20 weeks I don’t care what it is what it’s called I just want to see and hold my baby so I’m scared constantly but trying not to stress and we haven’t even been to our first appointment yet which is Tuesday I wish he would have listened to me and not told her till after the appointment minimum but he felt bad because my mom and my best friend knew (but I had to I need my mom to watch my other kids for dr appointments and we live on the same property and are very close plus it explained why I went from doing lots of stuff to doing hardly anything)… once we told my mil she immediately said it was her recommendation we tell his sister and family who we aren’t close with so “they can pray for you” and after a lot of back and forth we agreed then she said ok once you tell her tell her to call me 🙄 selfish b couldn’t keep her mouth shut that’s why she wanted us to tell not because she cared about “prayers” I’m over her and she knows I won’t answer her calls and texts. Just needed to vent because I’m over people I wanted to let the baby announce that it was a thing by being born. So now when anyone asks about baby names we say we are using my Harry Potter names the child who shall not be named or Voldemort for a boy and voldemorticia for a girl…just to shut them up 🤷‍♀️🤣