How do you decide youre done trying. Mine and my husbands lebido went down alot.after our baby girl was born almost 3 years ago. We have "tried" for 3 years i say that because we dont have sex alot so there for alot of missed chances.I Had post partum alot of.issues with pregnancy but i loved it.and i always wanted a 2nd child but i also love the thought of 1 kid. I have a huge family and like the thought of having one but feel broken at the thought of ending the chapter of my life. Help before i downward spiral.....