My bf doesn’t want to move in together?

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We’ve been together 3 years and my boyfriend still doesn’t want to move in together. We both have our own places. Would you sacrifice with this?

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If it were me, I would not stay with someone who after three years together still isn’t sure if he wants to take that step

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Doesn’t want to give up his independence. Privacy. In case it doesn’t work out he’s got a back up plan.  It sure if he’s a gamer or sport guy. He doesn’t have to make any sacrifices or compromises at his own place. He can watch the game in peace or game all night without interruptions. Or maybe he’s not that sure about the relationship. Have a sit down conversation. He likes having the cushion of support. Money aside. I don’t think it’s that. Wasting money on 2 places. If that was an issue that would have changed a long time ago. I think it’s more so giving up his independence. Unless he’s having women over and living the single life let’s hope not . Or guys night and that’s his bachelor pad and escape from reality. He may not be ready to let go of that plan.

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What’s the reasoning? It’s hardly affordable and that stops a lot of people.

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It honestly depends on the life stage you're in. Currently, sure I'm not dating at all, but even if I would be, I'd be hesitant to move in together. So check what his reasons are and make sure you can live with that or maybe come up with a compromise.

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Ur wasting money by paying two amount of rents.. u should be both taking some sort of next step.

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Maybe he isn’t ready to live together or it’s a few other reasons why. How often are you over there ?

My bf doesn’t want to move in together?

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