Another woman sending my husband a gift
I love my husband. I feel like we have a pretty good marriage and he's honestly the best person I've ever been with. I do struggle with a lot of insecurities though and recently my husband was send a gift by a woman he games with. A couple weeks ago my husband was playing video games in a party with multiple people. Including a woman. He was telling everyone how when he was a kid and growing up in foster care he never got Christmas presents because the ones donated to them his foster mom would give to her biological kids. And one really weird thing he wanted was wind chimes. I've been told that story before. He said it may just be his autism but they fascinated him and he knew the other kids wouldn't want them so they wouldn't be given away. Every year he asked for wind chimes and never got it. Welp. A couple days ago he got a small package in the mail and he opened it. The woman they game with got his address from his brother (who my husband always games with in parties) and sent him some wind chimes and put a note saying she feels like he deserves to have the one thing he wanted as a child and then my husband started crying. My husband is overall an emotional person. It could be the autism. It could be because of childhood trauma. But it honestly REALLY bothered me. I don't want another woman sending my husband gifts and the fact that it made him cry just made me feel like crap because I'm his wife and I'm supposed to make him so happy he cries. And it's just wind chimes. If I knew he still wanted them into adult years I WOULD have gotten them for him. I just feel insecure and bothered. Am I being dramatic?
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