I’m pregnant, 17 weeks.

I’m a mom of three, as of right now my oldest two are at their grandparents.

so it’s just me and my 5yo.

Yesterday I had an appointment so really didn’t get to wash, honestly, I was exhausted. Typically I try and wash everything, usually what’s left in the restroom in the dirty clothes basket. But I guess today my partner wants to call me a “ poor excuse of a woman “ because he couldn’t find his truck key so he had to find something to text me and belittle me about

Because this morning he didn’t have easy access to his work clothes. I’ll attach what he texted me

All the dirty clothes he likes to leave in the room are thrown, mind you he doesn’t help clean, don’t take out any trash, he thinks he has a maid, he doesn’t help with grocery shopping I’m left to do it all. Doesn’t have to pay bills or anything. Really just works, comes home and plays his game, and just talks about work.

I don’t feed into it and just reply with “ ok “ or “k “ because I’ve learned he loves the reaction, and it’s getting super old.

I don’t work at the moment, I’m always home. Don’t really talk to anyone cause he doesn’t like my sister or my cousin or my kids' grandma because as he says “ he has his reasons “. Those are about the only people I really talk to and since he calls my phone I have an iPhone he has Android. On Android when you call someone you can see if someone is on the other line with someone so if I’m on the phone and I say I’m talking to my sister, he will go on a rant about “ go ahead and talk to her, I know you love talking to your sister “ mind you when we do talk it’s cause we hadn’t spoken to each other in weeks.

He doesn’t call me like he used to when he was working which is understandable I get it you know. But he would make a way even when I didn’t ask to but he would want to be on the phone most of the day to see what I would be doing. And now, he doesn’t bother to call or even conversate. He just calls and then sees what I’m doing and hangs up, he doesn’t even call on lunch break either which like I said he would always do and suddenly he ain’t.

It’s getting old tbh…I try and keep sane for my kids and this baby on the way. A woman be so tired…I’m tired of being belittled for what I don’t do…

When I try my best but when it’s a quick slip-up like that he’s quick to call me names…