Good things happen to...

So I was always a good kid. I'm also dumb and naive and see the good in everyone.

It's brought me a lot of heartache, but I like who I am and I don't really want that to change, I feel if people take advantage that just shows flaws in their character, not mine. I want to help everyone and support charities. (Because I don't currently have the time to volunteer, I'd rather volunteer)

my ex was basically the opposite: He's very entitled and said I shouldn't support charities because "nobody's gonna help us if we're having trouble". Even now that we've seperated (my choice) He feels entitled to the money I work for (we have an arrangement for childcare that is on paper 50/50 but practically, our child is 80% with me.) and he feels entitled to my body, and he's constantly berating me about having a new boyfriend and we agreed I'd let him know if I'd met someone new - which we didn't, he requested and I denied but he still remembers it asif we agreed 🙄- and I'm obviously lying.. just to paint a picture here. He's just an Ahole and he's not even denying that. (In our language Asshole (not the butthole variety, but the poor behavior one) and acorn (fruit?) is thesame word, he has accepted that as a pet name)

Anyways so when I was with him, we only fell onto 'bad luck'. or just consequences to his behavior.

I moved out this February and so many good things have happened.

I found a really good apartment, I received random money, My land lady gifted us a bike, I won the lottery twice (small amount of money, but still) and now one of my neighbors left a teddy for my kid on our parking lot (It's a new, still tagged, bear and sat on my kid's bike when we came home from school, it's a locked parking garage and our spot is nearly the last in the building, there's no other children in our block, we also have good contact with our neighbors, it's clearly a gift, I just thought I'd explain because "we found it in our parking lot, it was clearly a gift" , seemed like a reach and like a kid probably happened to lose their stuffy on our parking lot)

I just feel grateful for my situation tbh. It just shows it actually pays of to be kind and I am actually grateful for this signal.