am i in the wrong?

My boyfriend went out last night drinking at 6pm it’s now 5pm the next day and he’s only text me about 4 times throughout. We had made plans for both today and yesterday so i was waiting around on him but he didn’t even bother to even reply to me. so i told him i was mad at him for not communicating with me and he said i didn’t trust him and called me a control freak, i don’t see it like that at all. He has done this multiple times when he drinks and i’m just sick of it. He told that he offered for me to join, which in truth he did, but i had to babysit which he knew so i couldn’t have gone if i wanted to. He’s still not even home. I just wanted a little update every once in a while. Am i wrong for my feelings in this situation?