Not sure what to do

Needing some advice

I have been with my boyfriend for about 7 months now. We’ve met each others kids, I’ve met the ex wife, and we just met each others family’s. Things have definitely gone fast. We get along very well, some things are a little rocky but other than that it’s been okay. I just found out im pregnant 🙃 we weren’t careful a couple times and I had warned him that it could happen and he was all for it because he wants more kids and thought I was the one. Well I told him I was pregnant and he reacted fine. But he now has made a point to tell me he would always choose his ex wife’s dad over me if he had to choose because he needs a father figure in his life because he “craves” male attention. I have NEVER asked him to choose all I asked for was some boundaries because it was getting a little weird how much time he was still spending with his ex’s family. I had tried to explain that him saying that really hurt my feelings especially since I never asked him to choose nor would I. It’s been really weird since. Now he’s not sure about anything do to with me or the baby and I just feel like I got played or manipulated. Any advice? Am I in the wrong? I have no idea what to do at this point. I feel like I’m one of those women who tapped someone now. I know if he wants to get rid of this baby I can’t. My son died at 32 weeks 2 years ago and this is the first pregnancy I’ve had since.

*I want to make sure to add I don’t have a problem with their relationship, I only have a problem when he made plans with me and then ditched them to go hangout with him for the weekend and I sat at home alone*