Hello everyone I just dealt with this yesterday. I have been dating a older man and he always wants to be physical as in very vulgar kissing or just sex period, me on the other hand I always knew that older men love pretending as if they care about younger women but is really just preying on our youth. Because of that I told him I wouldn’t do anything physical until I see a test, he agreed… This was literally the end of March, to the point where I forgot because he didn’t say anything to me and I just continued to live my life. About a month ago he asked to get to the point of physical affection and I remembered and asked for the test in which he said “I got tested the same day you asked and I’m negative for everything herpes, chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis and hiv… yeah I’m negative”

I said well where is it, he says it’s home so I asked for a pic. He sends me a page that only has hiv/syphilis and gave me some excuse that he glossed over the paper n seen negatives. I told him well you know what to do go get a full panel he says ok n he goes to get tested, those results come and only chlamydia and gonorrhea is on the paper. He starts blaming the doctor saying the doctor keeps opting out of the other tests because of his age (60). Fast foward yesterday he calls me saying that the 3rd results are back and for hsv1 and 2 his levels are elevated but not enough for a positive so it’s unlikely it can be passed on and to make matters worse he tested positive for hepatitis A. This cannot be coincidence in my opinion but because the herpes isn’t a positive I didn’t say anything other than well you need to retest. I told him to inform his previous partners because let’s be real I’m not sleeping with you so you’re active with someone especially if your levels were low before and now it’s slowly rising out of the negative levels. He got upset with me because I said that but 🤷🏽‍♀️ it’s no coincidence you were playing around getting tested for it and now it’s equivocal. Me personally I’m going to get a hepatitis vaccine, what do you guys think I should do I personally feel like I should warn other women about him if he refuses to disclose and keeps on lying especially the partners I’m aware of.