Husband went to hooters and vented to bartender about our situation and said marriage is hard…

My husband emotionally cheated on me and I forgive him and we have had therapy …. Well we got into an argument and he was taking out stuff on me that wasn’t my fault. He played video games as I bathed our babies and put both down to sleep last night and then he went out for 3 hours. Didn’t tell me where he was going. Turns out he went to hooters and he said he spoke to the hooters bartender and vented I asked like what you told her our whole situation. He said idk I don’t remember. I told her marriage is hard and she and I just spoke. Then today he was short and cold and continued taking stuff out on me that is not my fault and said when the boys went down he was going to work out which he hasn’t in years. He said to relieve stress….he also told me to shut the f*ck up as I told him my feelings about this. I would never want our sons to speak to any women let alone their future wives this way. And if we ever had a girl I would never want her to be spoken to this way. And treated like this. He made comments about prayer and what’s the point if it’s not helping. I said it does help I have forgiven you and am here with you and I don’t and won’t ever blame Jesus/God for anything. They are the reason I have strength to get through everything. He is not treating me how he used to or how a husband should treat his wife. I used to be sad at the thought of not being married in heaven but now I’m totally good that there won’t be marriage in heaven. It makes me sad. It’s like he doesn’t care. It’s like as if I did this all to him instead of him to me.