Would you uninvite people you’ve already invited?
So, I texted my friends group chat about possible getting together to go out and have fun doing some activities. I let it be known that if they also wanted to invite people they could as i would do the same. Well, the person i invited agreed to go. The people friend #1 invited was going to come but i think cancelled and friend #2 wasn’t going to bring anyone. Friend #2 let us know that she felt awkward that we were bringing people and she wasn’t. She claimed because of her anxiety. i think friend #2 thought both friend #1 and I would be tending to the people we invited and she would be left all alone, but that wasn’t my intention. My intention was to bring different people together and everyone socialize with each other and make new friends. I want to be considerate of her comfortability and I don’t want anyone to feel uncomfortable, but i don’t know how to uninvite the person I already invited. It just puts me in an awkward position no matter which way i go because if i do bring that person, I don’t want to feel like i wasn’t considerate of friend #2 and also being the only person who brought someone else. On the other hand, I feel it’s rude to just take someone’s invitation away. Now i feel like I will have to lie and tell the person I invited like we aren’t going anymore or something. Idk it just sucks either way. I just feel horrible all around.
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