Going through financially, friend who is in the nursing field only lend me $30. She's no longer a friend of mine. Am I wrong?

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Been going though a lot financially and my friend of 10 years who is in the nursing field only sent me $30.. let's not forget she only has one child. I feel as if she could've gave more as a true friend. She is no longer a friend of mine anymore and now considered blocked.

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Well she could have given your ungrateful ass $0, so I’m not sure what the issue is. The fact that you feel entitled to her money is INSANE. 
And whoever feels that you’re not wrong is a weirdo.

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So because she’s a nurse doesn’t mean she can’t have financial hardships too? Be thankful she even sent you anything. You’re entitled to nothing. If I were her I’d send you a request for $30 plus TAX for being ungrateful af.

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You should be grateful she gave you anything. She doesn't need to explain her financial situation to you and having one child is irrelevant, she helped you out.

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damn u must be boring af having to steal a Facebook post for attention since you don’t get enough attention in real life 🥴

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Yeah you’re def in the wrong.. just bc it’s not a lot doesn’t mean it’s nothing. Be grateful she even lent you something to help you out 🙄

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You’re ungrateful. You aren’t entitled to ANYONE’S money, no matter what. I highly doubt you know their financial situation & they don’t owe you shit. You’re lucky they sent you anything at all. I’d be LIVID if I sent a “friend” 30$ to help them out & they blocked me because they felt it weren’t enough. 🙄 disgusting.

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Nurse here ✊🏽
Yes, you’re the awful friend. 
As a person who has struggled financially for some YEARS, although I am a nurse, does NOT mean that my income supports myself, child, home and bills adequately. Personally, in NYS I’m barely scraping by. I was on unemployment last year for 8+ months - down to my last dollar in my account, OVERDRAFTED, and not ONCE did I ask for money/help from someone and then been upset by what they gave me. Anything was more than what I had. 
AND, if I did borrow, I paid back and with interest. Real friends understand you going through a hard time or struggle, but your circumstances are NOT their problem. And honestly, it sounds like after 10 years, she has helped you more than once, and seems as if you use her good-hearted nature for YOUR OWN BENEFIT and yet still want to cry wolf on top of that. 
You did sis a favor blocking and unfriending her, she does not need someone with your energy and attitude around her or her child!!

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This can’t be real. But on the off chance that it is…You don’t know her financial situation and should be grateful she gave you anything at all, you certainly don’t deserve it. “Only has one child” that’s more than enough financial strain and completely irrelevant. She doesn’t owe you anything, you’re not entitled to her money and sending you any at all was generous and clearly makes her a better friend than you.

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You’re ridiculous. You’re not entitled to other people’s hard earned money just because you’re having a hard time financially. Your financial problems are no one’s responsibility but your own. Blocking someone because they didn’t hand you as much as you clearly feel entitled to is next level. You don’t know what being a friend is if this is how you treat people that do something out of the generosity of their hearts.

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Wow, wow! This kind of entitlement is beyond crazy!!! Your friend is not obligated to financially support you on a crisis you have. Anybody with pride and some dignity should say thank you but no thank you!!! Learn to manage your financial situation better, get government assistance, get a small job.

Going through financially, friend who is in the nursing field only lend me $30. She's no longer a friend of mine. Am I wrong?

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