My partner and I have been together for like 11 years and we don’t do the whole sending nudes anymore, our sex life is bland and we have sex like once a month. Much to my dismay I would jump on him everyday if he wanted it but he doesn’t. Kind of getting the impression he’s gone off me these past few months. As much as he says he hasn’t nothing much changes to show me. Anyway he’s gone away camping for the weekend with his mates so I was thinking of sending him a few cheeky photos I haven’t sent them in years! I’ve taken them and I like them. It’s just I don’t want him to think I’m gross or like what the fuck are they for. Because they will be completely out the blue he would not expect at all!

So I don’t know if to send them or not. I already want to jump on him when he gets back and he’s not going to be back for 2 days. I just don’t think he feels the same about me.

What do you think I should do?!?