*UPDATE: I know I do not own Winnie the Pooh and I know that a lot of people do Winnie the Pooh. That doesn’t bother me. The only reason why I’m so upset is because it’s my best friend. We have the same friend circle and she knew that I wanted Winnie the Pooh and she knows how long I’ve been dreaming of it. It is also the way she worded it. She knew she was going to upset me*

Original post:

I have been trying to have a baby. I have names picked out and I want my baby shower to be Winnie the Pooh theme. I've picked out a few things I want at my baby shower. One of my best friends is pregnant. Early in her pregnancy we talked about the gender reveal and baby shower.

I showed her ideas what her and her husband like (cows, fishing, motorcycles etc). I mentioned to her how I'm going to have a Winnie the Pooh baby shower.

Months later she invites me to her gender reveal and said she hopes I'm not mad but she fell in love with the Winnie the Pooh gender reveal stuff. Im heartbroken. Do I have a right to be upset that she did this?

It would be different if she didn't know I already had it planed out.