Just me venting…

This girl who was my best friend for a few years is now talking shit about me and telling others that I’m the “bad” and “toxic” friend but in my opinion… I’m neither of those.

I honestly just feel like we grew apart and we did. We’re on different paths..

She just wants to party, drink, do drugs… which is fine!! I don’t judge but that isn’t a life I want to live every weekend if that makes sense. But I think that became an issue for her.

I also honestly feel like instead of just letting it be where we just started to grow apart and be on different paths, she needed there to be a real issue. Like she needed a back story to why we didn’t talk/hangout as much anymore and she needed to be the victim in it.

I’m not saying her trauma is invalid but I feel like because of everything she has been through… I do think she has victim mentality or complex… if that is the correct term for it?

Because the true reality is that we DID grow apart. We want different things and we want to do different things so we are on different paths. But all I’m hearing is about how she’s talking bad about me and telling people that I was a bad and toxic friend. When I’ve never once been bad or toxic to her. I’ve always catered to her and did what she wanted to do even when it made me uncomfortable but I guess because I stopped catering to her… I’m a bad/toxic friend.