My sexual life with my partner, more so repulsed by him. Now before you all jump down my throat, his hygiene has been disgusting! When he kisses my cheek (face), his breath stinks and so does he. He’s musty often, I even told him that his hygiene isn’t up to par and it’s a huge turn off. He thinks I’m joking and always wonders why he can’t get me in the mood .

I cannot have sex with someone who stinks! He also has a terrible habit of putting on musty smelling shirts after a shower - which obviously doesn’t help. Not sure if he realizes that the shirt is dirty or not. I speak up but it’s not working .

Please help , I want to be intimate with him but i cannot stand the funk .

Edit - to answer your question- we do sleep in the same bed on polar opposites in separate blankets . I’ve said no to his advances many times because of it .