My boyfriend is hanging out with his friends now and he’s been off his phone for 3+ hours, and now he’s not responding again. I’m not really bothered by it, I don’t crave his attention and he’s obliviously allowed to hang out with his friends without answering me all the time. The thing is that he gets anxious/worried when I do the same. When I hang out with my friends and I don’t respond for about 1 hour he asks me what we’re doing since i’m not responding. He constantly checks up on me when i’m not with him and I actually feel responsible and stressed about answering him back because I know how uneasy he can be in those situations. I find it unfair that he can enjoy his time with his friends without me nagging and stressing him, but I can’t do the same. I’m honestly annoyed and jealous that it’s not the same for us both. I wish that he could be more calm or nonchalant about me not answering him, but when I bring it up he asks me why I don’t want him to care for me..