I was deep cleaning last night and got sassy while cleaning the dvds and going thru them.. sitting on the floor mind you. My husband gets pissed at me, grabs his clothes and says bye as he walks out.. like he’s about to leave me with our newborn & toddler and spend the night elsewhere. Stays in the garage for about 10 min and then comes back inside.. doesn’t talk to me for the rest of the night or all of today.

He gets home from work today and while I’m folding laundry, does like a throat clearing thing and when I look at him he goes are you going to say hi to me?

Tells me he doesn’t want chicken for dinner tonight and when he sees I ate his ice cream over the last 4 days he starts cussing, slamming the freezer door to our brand new fridge that I bought and throwing silverware down into the sink. Are these normal reactions to simple things like this? I’ve had really.. really bad relationships from my mom beating me and verbally abusing me as a child into growing up to actual relationships I just can’t tell what is supposed to happen anymore.