I've lost count on the amount of conversations my partner and i have had about sex and what our needs were. However, my needs seem to always fall through the cracks. He's a selfish lover as long as he gets his i don't matter. My sex drive is higher than his so i often try to start sex but im met with no, hand swatting, and lil bs arguments amoung other things; but when he wants it he expects me to jump into action. At this point im not sure what i can do to get him in the mood... Help!