Low libido at a young age?

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I did just have a baby about 2 years ago, but I am only 23. Some days I do definitely have overwhelming desires, but a good majority of the time it could go with out tbh. Which is the exact opposite of how I used to be! I miss it being on my mind, I miss feeling all the things. 
I have heard that your libido picks back up closer to 30? And it’s relatively normal to have a lower libido in your 20s, I just feel like mine is reeeeally low lol. I hate it 
Anyone else?

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Let’s just be honest. You had a baby. Your priorities changed. You are exhausted. Stressed. Chasing and clean up after a kid. Maybe a partner as well. Work. Deadlines. Feeling like am i doing enough. Comparing yourself to other moms which makes you feel worse. Doubts and insecurities. Your body changes after kids. Hormones. Physically. Weight gain. Mom pooch. You’re insecure about your body. Etc. bottom line is you aren’t the same person that you were at 18. Things change. Stress levels. Change. Mental health changes. Priorities change. Over thinking. All things you probably didn’t have to worry about in high school without a child. Living situations change. Finances change. Relationships change. Etc. bottom line is you aren’t the same person after all kid. Of course sex came easily and you had a higher sex drive before them. Don’t be so hard on yourself. Try and take things off your plate. You aren’t thinking about sex you are thinking about all the things you didn’t have time to do. Probably aren’t masturbating. Taking the time to pamper yourself. Doing things that make you feel good about yourself, your confidence, fulfilling goals. Some days your sanity may be hanging on by a thread. And that’s ok. Maybe try to break up the norm. Having date nights. Excitement in your life. Having fun. Getting out of the house. Talking dirty or about fantasies and fulfilling them. Etc.

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idk if it's about 20's but my libido died 2 years after giving birth.. picked back up later but it definitely was dead for half a year. I gave birth when I was 27.

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I’m almost 28 and I feel like my sex drive is just now coming back but when I was in my early 20s I felt very similar to how you are feeling. There were weeks where I didn’t even think about sex lol, it happens to a lot of women.

Low libido at a young age?

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