Should I end it now ?

Larissa

I met this guy on hinge about a year and a half ago, we went out on a date. The date went really well we were connecting we were having a good time everything was good no major red flags or anything but there was just a lot going on in both of our lives at the time so we just kinda lost contact but never like fell out. So about 3 months also I kept seeing him pop up on my Instagram feed and he was looking nice so I had to slide up in the dms and see what was up. So I messaged him and he luckily was open to reconnecting so we did. It’s been about 3 months of us talking, going out , having sex all the relationship type stiff he’s introduced me to his friends and all. Here’s the issue…. We are not sexually compatible at all. It’s come to the point where I don’t even wanna have sex with him because it’s so unsatisfying and the whole time I literally wanna be anywhere else but there smh. He’s the best guy I could ask for in so many other aspects tho like he’s communicative , he’s kind , he’s friendly , he’s clean , he cooks , he plans things for us to do , he’s open with his feelings , he wants to take care of me like there’s so many green flags about him but it’s just the sex it’s so baddddddddd. And yes I have tried to coach him and explain to him what I’m into and what I need from my partner and he’s receptive and he tries but the vibe just isn’t there sexually which in turn leads me to acting negative or with an attitude towards him because sex is a very important thing to me when I’m with someone so it just throws my whole vibe off about him now. It’s getting to a point of our relationship where I think he is starting to want to take the next steps and I just don’t know what I should do because like yes I do like him I enjoy hanging with him but this is a major issue for me and I don’t know what the best move to make here is. HELLPPPPPPPPPPPPP