My husband sucks with money

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And it’s driving me crazy. This man let’s paid $4000 twice a month and NEVER has any money. He does pay the bigger bills in our home like mortgage and both car parents and insurance. But that all comes up to less than one check. He is constantly buying things for himself and only himself. Shoes clothes eating out at work colognes etc. and when i tell yal he RARLEY buys our kids anything. It’s basically never. And if we have a random big need he always wants to split it. Like his vehicle needed new tires and he asked me to pay half. I pay our utilities, groceries es and almost all expense for kids daycare clothes sports. But the part that pisses me off the most once he’s blown through his money. He will ask me to buy him things. He’s asked me to buy him hats, boots and his morning coffee just this week. After he’s purchased about $600 of boots/jeans/ cologne the last 2 weeks. Now i don’t mind getting him things. But he is ALWAYS asking for something and never gives anything. And I’ve brought this up multiple times and there’s no change. I’m honestly just so tired of him and his money problems. It makes it so hard to want to be around him. Amount other issues i have iwith him im at the point where i want to leave.